Linda K,
I think you are still coming from a point of view that cross dressing is wrong or makes one less of a person in some way.
We all deserve to be liked and loved for who we are.
So many posts seem to start with the assumption that we are wrong to crossdress.
The need to express our gender identity fluidity is not a choice. It is who we are. No one has the right to tell you to change who you are.