Speak for yourself, I look great! Great for an old guy in a dress, that is.
Seriously, I do think I look OK in a lot of outfits, but never do I look like a woman. I think I, and other guys, can look good in certain clothes marketed for women. Certainly not all outfits, and some look way better with the top filled out correctly, but we can look good even without looking like women.
I'm sure there are many in the vanilla world who would disagree with me, but since this is my opinion they're wrong.