Thanks for the great advice and I'm really trying to keep arms length with her. My wife talks to her sisters everyday, family is very important to my wife and we do have a strong bonded family. She also believes with me her sister is "feeding a candy to a child" she knows weekness and dwells on it. I believe this was a total accident this time and my wife wants to approach this with great caution not to rock the boat in the family. That's why she tells me to always be cautious of when I go for my Friday drives and put gas in the car because me being outted could cause tension in the family because everyone has there own opinion and doesn't want things to get awkward.