Charlotte, she knows you CD correct. I thought you were DADT?
Is she so inflexible that you can not even shop? Absolutely no leeway?
I fail to understand some of these DADT relationships. She knows, doesn't like it, but doesn't flat out forbid it. You do your best to keep it away from her but as far as I am concerned, it is impossible for two people to share a home and not see something of her husband's CD'ing.
I am sorry, but she seems a bit toxic to me.
