We are all adults. We all understand what cheating is and what open relationships are. We also understand that some of our sisters who are in hetero relationships have an immediate and visceral reaction to any conversation involving this subject. Why? Because they are fighting tooth and nail to disprove the notion that crossdressing is a highly sexualized activity. Why do they fight it? Because they don't want the women in their livea to say, "I knew it all along!"
Well, crossdressing can absolutely be very sexualized or it can be very tame and innocent. That's entirely up to the practitioner. Our interests and our motivations dont always align and that's a good thing.
We are all adults here and we don't have to shame a person who engages in Z simply because we are trying to convince our loved ones that we have no interest in engaging in Z.
Just because some people will drive a sports car at 150 miles an hour, break the law and put everyone's life in danger doesn't mean that everyone who chooses to drive a sports car is a scoflaw. It doesn't mean that you have to hate on people who own fast cars, or even on those who are reckless. We are all adults. Live and let live.
