I dont envy but love to join in or be part of there group and be accepted as one of them, I go to my seaside town and there are plenty of Hen parties out, I have been invite out with them on many occasions just from being around them when they are in a pub or a club I am in. I was even sat in the pub one afternoon after a going shopping sipping my beer, a Hen party was in full swing in the afternoon, I was in my blend in shopping clothes, they saw me on my own dragged me across to there group, I spent the afternoon with them. They all then took me back to my hotel and waited in the bar while I changed into something more appropriate for the night to come clubbing. What a fantastic day and night I had. So for me is being accepted as one of them rather than envious of them. The best part when we where all in the loo together all in a line by the mirrors doing our lippy, lol
