Hi Daphne I so feel for you is this your first party dressed? Amongst butterflies anyway that your also lookin for a positive go for it girl from your wife must be so hard.i hope you go to your party and njoy and have a great time.i have just been to my first ever party fully dressed up as a beautifull sexy witch.i couldn't sleep properly all week thinking about the party and my wife was egging me to go fully supportive but I was still so nervous .also it was a long drive to the party but anyway what was I worried about! Beautifull people great night very drunk wore.stilletos neary all night 5am! Had a absolute ball ! When I eventually got home ext day I gave my wife a big hug and then burst in to tears of happiness.relief.gladness etc I don't know.iv never ever done that before.just let it out my wife says so I did ........love jasmine