I think you are being sensible to be a MIAD with a beard.
I wear all the time, and going out, a bra, bandeau over it,
a skirt, bikini bottom, and hose. Long hair and a beard.
These are sensible clothes for a man.
I have no interest in passing.
My wife has gotten used to it
and warns me only when needed to not cause undesired alarm.
I think you do not want a wife you must hide from.
