I am so happy for you! I can empathize with you caution, though. Your concern for your wife's feelings is a sign of a good relationship. Even more so in that your wife reciprocates that feeling.
Now comes the big step of getting out as Larissa. I know how daunting it can be, but I also know how invigorating it is. It's a matter of choosing the right venue, and feeling confident to step out of the door. Keep me posted!
