I had no idea. Other than drag shows (which I thought were just for entertainment), I didn't realize there were men that CDed in real life. My jobs from the time I was 16 years old, involved working in a hospital or office environment where either some types of uniforms were required, or the offices were primarily women. My SO didn't start CDing until well into his 60's. It was a long learning process. So, I guess you could say that I "had no views" of something I did not know about. I realized that all CDers are different, and I had to learn about my husband, not project the views of other CDers onto him.