My thought is that some wives that knew before they were married tend to be more supportive. Wives that find out the husband was hiding and sneaking around tend to be less supportive. Of course, there are exceptions. My hubby was a "late bloomer". I was in on it from the beginning, but he didn't CD when we got married.
There are also behavior differences. If a husband dresses and acts like he is trying to be a "pick up" or wants to meet up with others (men or women) for nefarious reasons, that would tend to put even accepting wives off.
Since every story is different, there is no definite way to determine future acceptance.
