Originally Posted by Cheryl T
The above quotes convey the idea that submission is a feminine trait or condition, which seems based on very dated stereotypes (that female are born to be led, and not lead) and can prove pretty offensive when put in writing on a forum where a lot of women are members or anonymous readers too. A little tact would go a long way for our female readers.
To reply to the OP (Amy) : although my CDing was probably born from an experience of being forced to dress in pantyhose as a small child, I don't want my wife to submit me or the other way around. I can find submission occasionally exciting in a sexual context where it is accepted and not forced, but not as a daily routine. To each their own and whatever works for the both of you is cool.
