So we did it! Overall it went well. We started the day with the makeover. The results were good, I would have liked a little more contouring but the girl who did it was wonderful. She was open and receptive of what we were looking for and kind and friendly. We did some shopping there afterwards and then headed to the hotel. I did the checking in while she waited in the car. The walking in and out of the hotel was terrifying. We had to ride in the elevator with other people several times throughout the day. There was a comment which amped up my anxiety and shut me down completely. I eventually shook it off but it was hard. We got some take out and ate it in the car. Then we took a stroll through target. I kind of blacked out and again shut down, trying not to look at anyone so if they were staring or commenting I wouldn't notice. She took it in stride and was confident and belonged, if only I could have been. After that we dolled up, both wearing a lbd and headed for the club. We looked fabulous. The show was fun . The crowd was very diverse which was nice. After the show we enjoyed the club. There were several other crossdressers there which was awesome. She did get hit on a few times and had many complaints. I was pretty uncomfortable with people hitting on her but she didn't entertain it for a minute. I was happy she was getting positive affirmations because it made her feel good. We did chat with a couple people which just made the whole outing worth it. She has been wanting this experience for who knows how long and had an amazing time! I was so happy for her . It was extremely intense for me. I did not care for being in public, was way to anxious to enjoy it at all or even function properly. I wish I could feel and do better in that way, it's just I love her so much I just can't handle other people being hateful towards her in the slightest. I did however really enjoy the club and being able to be with her in a relaxed way not having to think about anyone else.

I want to thank you all for the great advice and for giving me some mental preperation before hand. Sorry no pics, she would not approve. She did look gorgeous tho. Long black dress with a slit , beautiful makeup, and natural hair , long and a little wavy.