Came out again!

[danniUK]

The Danni method worked for you. Great. It wouldn?t work for me.

Yeah I realise I've been "lucky", with that 1% of doubt you'd have regardless when you tell someone and also that everyone I've told so far I know well enough to be almost certain that I wouldn't get a negative reaction. One thing my friend said on the weekend, talking about our small immediate group of friends, was "you know there's nothing you could tell us that'd make the slightest difference to how we feel?"
Which I kind of knew but still had that 1% so had shakey hands.

I also realise that there's people I know - friends but not of the same calibre (I'm thinking mostly of friends that I've made through work) - who I'm pretty sure would stop talking to me if they knew. Or maybe not, but that 1% is more like 50% with them.

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I often wish they just all already know about this. Life woulde certainly be different for me, as I would likely spend quite a bit of my time presenting as a woman, just doing what I otherwise would have been doing.

That's kind of what I want with my close friends, Suzie. I'd love to have our meetups - just us, away from our families - being myself. Where "myself" is sometimes presenting male and sometimes presenting female.

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Feels good to finally tell people, doesn't it?

It really does, Fiona!