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    Having Real Breasts: Blessing, Curse or Both?

    Many of us have unintentionally grown real breasts on our own. Some have had them since they were boys. Gynecomastia doesnt care about your age.

    Due to hormone problems, I developed a feminine body to where I dont need any padding. This has been both a blessing and a curse. Womens clothing fits better and bras (40B) and panties are part of daily life.

    I never thought, as a young boy, that my life would turn out like this. It must be a curse for boys with breasts. Like many of you, as a boy, I would try on my mothers clothes, etc. I will never forget going from filling the cups of her bra with balled up socks to actually needing a bra years later.

    My mother, when I told her I was having breast pain and she saw my B-cup breasts, measured me for a bra and bought one at Sears for me. I will always remember her kindness.

    For those with real breasts: has it been a blessing, curse or both?

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    I have always carried a little baby fat and as such, had a bit of man boob. Had always hated it, until the pink fog really set in. I have been working to increase my bust size, diet among other methods. I am not sure if it is a blessing or a curse. I love the jiggle while walking and develop great pleasure knowing they are mine. I also love that I do not need to wear any forms. The down side is when in man mode, nipples and boobs projecting through a shirt garners some attention. Others might not be overly kind with comments. I guess it is a blessing, because they are mine.

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    All I know is I would get a boob job in a second if there was a good way to explain it other than the truth
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    I have a solution for having breasts while being in man mode. Simply don't go into man mode! My bra cup size with no filler is DD. So I NEVER go into man mode.

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    I have always carried breast weight. My boobs were difficult to handle during PE and cross-country running, and I was caught cradling them in my hands a couple of times. No sports bras in those days!

    Now I am my own boss and I learned to love them and help them develop. I am a tight D, approaching a DD cup, and I need a bra all the time. I love being shaped and supported.

    I have sometimes been asked by women when underdressed if I am wearing a bra, and they are generally pleasantly amused when I explain my cup size.

    They generally notice my bra straps, or more precisely the bumps caused my loops & buckles. There are two main designs of bra strap, one a lot more obvious than the other.

    Each bra strap has a loop and a buckle. The strap starts at the buckle, doubles back through the loop and returns to the buckle, where it is adjusted. Thus there is always a length of doubled bra strap
    (typically 3") with a bump at each end.

    The first configuration has the buckle and doubled part high on the back, with the loop sometimes right up on the shoulder. As tops are generally tighter over the shoulders, the bumps print through. The second type has the loop attached to the bra band, with the buckle mid-way up the back, giving a single plain strap run over the shoulder. This is far less obvious unless you are in a tight top. This configuration is also less liable to produce strap marks.

    If buying bras on line you need to see a rear view to see which type of straps it has.

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    Quote Originally Posted by OrdinaryAverageGuy View Post
    All I know is I would get a boob job in a second if there was a good way to explain it other than the truth
    If my wife told me I could do one thing to make my CDing more enjoyable, I would choose a boob job without a moments hesitation. Nothing huge, a solid B or a small C.
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    I am on the edge regarding breast growth. I can feel natural bounce at times. I love it.

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    Like others, I've had gynecomastia since I was about 9 years old. Likely at that time, due to 2 things; 1. I gained a lot of weight between age 7 until then, and 2. Back in the 1960's some of the skin lotions and soaps had scented oils added to them so they smelled nice; 2 of those later were discovered to have minor testosterone blocking properties (knowing this, they may have had slight estrogen effects, who knows). So that was likely the reason, because until age 7, I was just a normal looking little boy, with no thoughts of CD or GID. And like others, school phys-ed classes were a nightmare, a boy having lovely feminine breasts taking communal showers with another 50 boys who had already gone through puberty while I wouldn't until I was 17, made those days a nightmare.
    But now I'm old and retired. Nobody cares what I look like. FYI I wear a 46B cup. And I'm barrel chested, so making finding a bra that fits right is difficult too, but I finally found one, and it's been on the market since the late 2000's. Made somewhere else on the planet, currently by a company called 'Plusform'; MODEL 'Instant Shaping', comes in a package of 2 for between $18.99 and $25.00 online and amazon. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B007JVHVJQ...fed_asin_title
    Colors, white, pink, ivory, black, lilac, berry, and turquoise, depending on which vendor you use. Google the product to find other vendors besides amazon. Ebay had some, and I think it was classicshapewear.com last time I ordered.
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    Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.

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    I know what you mean. Shortly after retiring, I noticed some growth and found I fill an a cup quite well. By now I?m able to mostly fill a b cup. So, I have two sets of bras for options. I do occasionally wear silicone forms as I enjoy the weight, feel and bounce.

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    Once you can fill any bra cup, you are hooked!

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    I think like many here, I'd love to have boobs if there were any way to explain them (and if my wife were accepting of them!).
    Though nothing too much - a C cup at most! I've had partners up to GG size and the back pain sounds horrendous.

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    I’m a full C cup and it’s definitely a blessing. I enjoy wearing sport bras and feeling my breasts nestled snuggly in them. I keep my chest shaved, which adds to the tactile and visual element.
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    Mine have grown over the past few years. Now 48 and a modest B cup. Fairly wide set so I don?t have a lot of projection, but they are there. LOL? An underwire bra scoops them up and really sets them out there. I tend to stay with a bralette for support. Love a sports bra when running. Can?t do without anymore.

    Recently bought a set of cakes nipple covers. Neat product. Only worn a few times but they seem to do the job but require snug clothing to secure.

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    My answer is a vociferous, "NOPE!" Even tho I dreamed of having real breasts for over 10 years!

    Once I REALLY got into CDing 20 odd years ago I own and wear form sizes B to HHH!

    So, no matter the size of my top or dress? I can fill the boob slots perfectly!
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    If I could I would.
    Every day I wish I had real breasts. It's the one thing that would be my dream. Alas it's not possible at this time.
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    I agree with all (or most) of the reply's, I wish I had them and I would get a boob job in a second if I could.

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    Quote Originally Posted by OrdinaryAverageGuy View Post
    All I know is I would get a boob job in a second if there was a good way to explain it other than the truth
    I think this is the best answer yet
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    I would love to have real breasts. I?m a B cup now but would love to be a C or D cup.

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    Admittedly I have between an A and a B cup, though I am trying to reduce them based on weight loss.
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    Apparently with age I do have some now - come close to filling a b bra - I?ll have to try an a sometime if I could find my size.
    I recently noticed I have a problem with certain thin white shirts I have as checking the mirrior before heading out realized way to revealing. Kind of funny after all these years or wishing I had them.

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    Hi girls,
    Just wondering if anyone has had a similar experience. A few years ago I gained a few stone in weight and developed moobs. Last year I started losing the weight and I'm close to y target weight and pre weight gain weight. However, my moobs haven't gone, in fact they have become firmer and more defined, ironically when I was overweight they weren't an issue as they were very flabby, but, now they are quite perky just like female breasts. I easily fill a B cup, up until now, it's been easy enough to conceal with loose fitting shirts and bulky jumpers and jackets, but, as we move towards summer I'm worried how to conceal them, obviously can't wear tight fitting tops or go shirtless, just wondering how others conceal them. For the record I actually like having them and look great in girl mode, so don't necessarily want to get rid of them, just want best way to conceal them

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    I love the look I achieve when I push up my Manboobs with a lacy push up bra the only downside is going on a beach vacation with friends or family I cannot remember the last time I went shirtless.

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    I would accept a really big breasts I they came along with my really feminine look. I am afraid this is not realistic. In fact I desire them.
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    Hello Jackie,
    it is a blessing.
    I don't know why but I now have some boobs that will fill a B cup and it feels great not to have a baggy bra!
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    Within the last year or so I have started to develop moobs - the combination of age and being slightly overweight.
    They're not very big, but I now have an A cup bra that they more than fill. I once had a girlfriend who was not very well endowed and I reckon I'd be a match for her now.
    I'd love it if they got bigger. It's a nice feeling to actually fill a bra, regardless of how big the cup size.

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