See? I wasn't implying that you WERE being insulting, only that some could perceive it that way.
:D
And I'm passing familiar with your relationship with your hubby. I've been around here for a bit
I didn't see the "fred Flintstone" comment you are referring to Vanya. But you're right, that IS insulting.
My point was that sometimes, an insult is only an insult because we make it so. For instance, my wife and sister. One can tell the other "good morning" and that one will come running to me asking "what did she mean by that?" Ya see, they don't get along so well, and are always assuming the the other is making a dig at them. But it only because they are CHOOSING to be antagonistic towards one another.
As to the poster who made that comment (about you V? ) they should be horsewhipped. with a real horse.
