Lizbeth... Are you sure that he is not a shoe or foot fetishist?
Either way TV or Footman, I would think it best dealt with, just be sure as you can which his secret is.
A "Total Honesty" five minutes is perfectly reasonable for two lovers taking the leap.
A suitable gift (perfume) might be added reassurance.
Be prepared for his guilt to come rushing out!
I sincereley hope you have a wonderful marriage. Good Luck both.
I misunderstood you comment Tekla, my appologies.