Thanks everyone for the kind (and even not so kind) thoughts
I can assure you that JD and I are indeed two seperate people, and are both members here
The whole traintrack comment came off the wrong way. Though there was another women that came between my wife and I , destroying a 21 year old relationship, I am no longer involved with her, and never will be. I am not, "switching" between partners as that came off as sounding
Yes, JD hurt me beyond words with my outing, but it was in retaliation for my ultimate betrayal of her(the affair)
We have 3 childern together, a beautiful house and years of experiencs together. Even though we are o the edge of divorce, we do still have feelings, and yes, we still love each other. The past few months have just had too much hate and hurt mixed in to really show it to each other
We live in Washngton State, and divorce taks a MINIMUM of 90 days after filing, and yes we are in the midst of that 90 days.
Who knows, maybe a reconcilliation is on the horizon, just too early to tell
I think that if that does happen, then it would be a beautiful thing to embrace, and not a horrible thing as some of you are inferring
