I am long pass the sexual part. When I was younger in my 20's or so, yes it was part sexual, but now it is just feeling good and right thing to do. I feel at peace and I love the way the various Fabrics feel against me. When I get to really dress up including perfume, and I take that first inhale, Ahh that really brings out the fem feeling. I just love looking like a woman, feeling like one, and smelling like one. LOL