Bobbie, you certainly can have yoru opinions about Ann {god rest her soul}....
But I have to step in and defend Ann Landers. She gave nothing but thoughtful, kind, and spot on advice to wives who have caught or found out about their hubbys' being cd's. She helped many generations of confused women as I think I read at least twice a year or more when this subject comes up. Because it always does and it always will. She always said that crossdressers are not hurting anyone, that this is a very misudnerstood phenonmea {sp?] and that most wives big concerns {the gay thing, the srs thing} are not what most cd's even want.
This theory of hers might come from an outdated source....but overall, her support and stuff for crossdressers has done more to help than hurt.
Sorry for going off topic...