Lanore, there is what I think I would do, then there is what I would do. I hope they are the same but I really don't know. Given the love and compassion, tolerance and understanding I have received from her, and given that she is my true love, I would like to think that I would (and do) make room for her need(s) just as she has mine. Funny, I think I understand why CDs want to appear female, afterall women are the superior sex, but I just don't get why a woman would want to appear to be a man. I have so much to learn. Louise
