Penny as someone who has always enjoyed your past posts...and to be honest...I rarely read about the gender problems.....I like to focus helping people with SO related issues, more than gender idenity issues...if I feel I can contribute to helping copels issues, then I stick with what I know....and I stay out of area's which I have pretty much zero expertise, liek someone questioning their gender.

I can see you went a round a'bout way in making your point. Why you had to single out gg's and not just tell your story correctly the first time boggels the mind. Maybe you are angry because since you do have gender issues you think "if I had been born a gg I would take *full advantage* of being a woman and all it could emcompass". Who knows...I am taking a guess at where your anger came from.

And you are entitled to your out-dated and narrow opinion of*what we women should be*.

People often ask why I moved from Texas to Canada to get married and find a guy....and the truth is Texas has many many men with views on how/what/and when a woman should be and do and look like. Thnakfully my folks were a bit hippi-ish in their approach to rasining me. I learned that value in life does not mean how pretty you are. Some of the kindest and most giving women in the world do not look or act {thank god!} like Paris Hilton. If being a woman is all about hair/make up/ and how fancy yoru clothing is....well I guess I am not a woman.