let's review...

if you have a daughter do you want her to marry...
someone with drug problems, or a problem drinker?
somone who would put thier job ahead of thier family?
someone who has a history of violence? (and a weapon is a signal of violence, make no mistake about that - to carry one is to think you need to use one - if you don't think you will be involved in violence, you don't go 'armed with intent")
someone who thinks that things are more important than people?
someone who is downloading porn, going to strip shows or hiring hookers?
someone who has other girlfriends, or past relations that they have not got over?

do you?

do you want her to marry someone who has a sexual preoccupation with women's clothes but will not tell her the truth about it?