Point one - K-Fed (or now, FedEx) was a stud service. He did his job, gave her pretty babies and was put out to pasture.
Like men, woman are human, and hence very dualistic. Sure, they want a guy who looks great in a suit. Who wears a tux like Sean Conery as 007, Robert Redford or Paul Newman in the Sing, or Humphry Bogart in Cassablanca. But it also makes them all hot and runny to think of that same Paul Newman out cutting weeds with sweat rolling down him in Cool Hand Luke, or Robert Redford in Cowboy gear in Butch Cassidy or Humphry in the African Queen.
They want a guy who is comfortable at the opera and can fix the washer. Who is good with babies but also can defend them if need be.
Just like men want a woman who is a complete and total lady out in public and a wonton total pervert in the bedroom. Think Audrey Hepburn in Breakfast @ Tiffinys' and Traci Lords in some XXX movie.
Money is nice either way.
