Let me clarify some things. The female friends I am talking about are the women in couples, who my wife and I have been friends with for years. The kind of firends where you spend every New Years Eve together for the last many years.
The six of us are really close friends.

The men would shit their pants if they knew about my dressing. I am guessing the women would laugh and then we wouldn't see those couples anymore. I may be wrong. I don't want to jeopardize our beautiful friendships. But I can mentally picture myself sitting with those women dressed as Wendy and having a wonderful time.

I wish it was as easy as them calling me up and asking Wendy to go to lunch one day and asking Jim to go to lunch another day. I guess that is what we are all hoping to happen at some point in our CD lives.