I have ben going out as Paula for many years. I have also ben to every gay Bar in a 75 mile radius of our area ( Cincinnati). As a crossdresser you think of a gay bar as a accepting place, why?, because society no mater how hard you try to convince otherwise has you earmarked as being gay. But this is what I have found. When i'm in a gay bar for the biggist part it's like being on a Island by yourself, you get the feeling that you just don't fit in with the crowd. I had a gay guy ask to see my drivers liscense, he wanted to see what I looked like as a guy, and went on to ask my why I was in that skirt. I guess gay men like gay men, not women or someone dressed as one. When in a Gal or Lez bar I get the same feeling of not fitting in. These gals like real women and not someone who just dresses like one. Now my question is what is a Hetrosexual Crodresser?.........
