The samples of dialogue you showed, illustrate someone feeling a great sense of relief AFTER the event. What about the torture they went through beforehand of being in a lousy marriage, or being genuinely TS and miserable most of their lives? Wouldn't they express the same sentiments?

If I was made miserable by someone I married then it would be very sad indeed, for whatever reason, but after the event and the pain and the hurt.....I would be relieved to get rid of them and very likely express myself in sweeping statements about the whole experience that probably wouldn't be a fair representation of the relationship.


I see your point......but I think it is biased and provocative because it's so selective and polarised. It is not a case of choosing this or that, your wife or CD.

Anyone in a REAL position of having to choose between one or the other is not being self indulgent. They are desperately suicidally transexual. Everything after that is a case of human nature and lack of compromise.