Karren,
It is easy.
I am not that discreet, I can't stand the worrying about such things.
And I don't care as much as you seem to whether anyone finds out.
I live in the San Francisco Bay Area, after all...I'm just *sigh* another *unique* person.
I do behave in a friendly and outgoing way, and simply smile genuinely, and goodheartedly as I hand over my credit card or driver's licence with my MaleFace on them. Friendly Eye-Contact shows I have nothing to hide, or fear...this is just how I am.....And I see this doesn't seem to work for you?
I am guessing you have much more at stake in being *outed* where you live.
I'd be talking Apples while you are living Oranges.
So come to SF and check into a Hotel over here! How's that for advice ?
Roberta
