[SIZE=3]You know what I hate? I hate it when questions like these make the CDer's think about things they would rather not and then they get down on themselves , wish they were different, didn't have the desires they do, etc. It only serves to add more confusion to an already, often times, misjudged puzzle that just can't seem to be figured out , which in turn causes emotions :mad: to arise that then cause turmoil in the partnership of the CDer and their SO/partner/GF/spouse. This is what I HATE about CDing. That and the sneeking around and secrecy.[/SIZE]