I agree it's more than just clothes. For instance if there are a man's pair of underwear, identical material and cut and everything but they are in the men's section and there are a pair of the same material, cut identical but in order for him to be able to want them they would have to come from the ladies department. At first he tried to make me understand that it was all about the material was so much softer and that was the reason he wanted to wear them. He has some bikini underwear, microsoft material made just like a woman's underwear in cut and everything the only difference is their is a tad bit more space in the crotch area for his ( you know). He don't want to wear them. To make a short story long, LOL, It's not about the material, or the hair pulling on your legs and arm pits, it's not about that it's more comfortable( come on I want born yesturday) I wear a bra everyday and it's uncomfortable, same with pantyhose all day and heels. It's like he was trying to act like I was a idiot and making up sh__ and thinking I didn't know the difference. PLEASE CDer's don't make up stuff, just be honest it has really hurt Me and my so cause he told me lies by making up stuff and instead of just being honest and saying I shaved my leggs cause it feels better and I like the smooth feel and I shaved my armpits cause it just feels better. Just be honest about it. Just a helpful hint if any of you decide to come out any time soon.