Would give it up in the old New York minute. But life intervenes.
Would give it up in the old New York minute. But life intervenes.
Well i can`t say yes or no to that as i am not a man and i am not a woman, i am more like a woman on the in side and a man on the out side or is it a man out side and a woman inside, or a man that thinks like a woman , or a woman that looks like a man, don`t ask me i have not got a clue lol
joanne
I wish I knew what I liked, one minute I enjoy being a male then the next minute I resent everything about being a male. Ugh its a vicious endless cycle.![]()
:ire:Merry
HRT since 2009
Couldn't agree more there with the second statement.
I would have to agree with the first one however as i'm an aussie rules footy fanatic/tragic.
It's like if i don't want to shave for a week and and a half... i won't. But when the whiskers on the face do come off... then the make up goes striaght on. Not that a clean shaven face stops me from wearing a dress or such though.
I play cricket, go to the footy, drink (too much) with mates, play the playstation with the kids, currently doing some paving outside the front door of the house. I'm really not afraid of getting my hands dirty.
Geez i used to be a panel beater before i started driving trucks.
i am what I am, I do what I do..
i do not seek approval from others.
If I could do it all over from the beginning I would drfinitely be female. Maybe in my next life, LOL! But, that's not the case in reality here. I've spent my 42 years on this earth being male, and know nothing else. I'm not bad at being male, that was never the case. I'll just crossdress and nurture my fem side as I've been doing and deal with it. I'm just trying my best to balance both sides. I am blessed with a wonderful wife, family, friends, and enough money to survive in this crazy world so I'm not gonna rock this boat.![]()
GO RED SOX!!!:yippee:
Suzie
Yes & no really, I'm not completely happy being a man and am very jealous (but also respectful, I must stress) of women but at the same time I know for me at this moment, deep down I wouldn't be happy being a woman 24/7.
I may be failure in the stereotype of what a man should be but at the end of the day I don't care - I'm unique, I'm me a of both genders and a bit of niether...my ideal would be to integrate crossdressing with drab and just wear what I want to wear as a man but I'm nowhere near brave or self-confident enough to be the guy in the skirt and pantyhose yet.
Some times I long to be femme, sometimes I don't - its a case of Yin & Yang -to quote Karren Hutton - the best of both genders!![]()
“A truth that's told with bad intent
Beats all the lies you can invent.”
― William Blake, Auguries of Innocence
Tough question! If I could have chosen my gender at birth then I would definitely without doubt chosen female. However there are still times I do like being a guy, just far less of them than when female!I would never go down the route of gender reassignment though.
The guy thing stinks i hate all of id give it up in a heartbeat NHow wheres my make up bag![]()
Spelling bad because the fairies make love on my keyboard.
All men are dogs!
I would live as a woman 24/7 given the chance. When I look in the mirror,I see a woman looking back.![]()
I very much enjoy being a male. I only want to LOOK like a woman from time to time. I would not want to change that in the least bit.
[SIZE="4"]Mary Jane[/SIZE]
May those that love us, love us. Those that don't love
us may God turn their hearts. And if he can't turn their
hearts, may he turn their ankles, so we'll know them by their limping.
I totally enjoy being a man and doing all the man things, Taking care of the house, being the man bread winner, Supporting my family and being a Dad to my kids. I just happen to like to play dressup sometimes. :p
my sister's reply when I told her how I prefer to dress
"Everyone has there thing, all that matters is that you are happy, love what you do and who you do it with"
love being a guy - very highly sexed in a heterosexual way - don't think i want to try it with a guy!
love being a girl - lots of things i wouldnt like - PMT, the ability to multitask, having to get on with life when you are ill to name but three! i enjoy my 'man flu'
love mitch
good point that - yes i suppose i'm a girl when i'm a man - only en femme about 6 hours a week but thinking about the next experience. wearing my 'manbag' with pride, varnishing my nails, grooming like never before, wearing my 'man panties', chatting with the GGs, probably in girl mode most of the time - hadn't thought of that!!!
mitch
I have been in a battle all my life in this man vs woman thing. In my head it is so clear...you are a woman...the body says though...you are a man...Growing up it is the body which controls what you become as an adult. Trying to fit in, trying to be "normal", getting married and having a family all the while wishing you were the mom. Having a son who is your pride and joy no matter what.
If it were possible and I could have chosen, I would have been a woman, but this is the real world and compromise is the key word.
Super Mod
Oh God, Thy sea is so great and my boat is so small
The Breton Fisherman's Prayer was engraved on a brass plaque and presented to President John F. Kennedy by US Navy Admiral Hyman Rickover.
Daintre, gone but not forgotten, R.I.P. Angel xx
Tamara
I think that each one of us has our own idea of what is a "guy" and what is a "girl". I love being a guy and doing the things I see as being guy stuff, no gym, no heavy drinking, no being loud. I love my wife dearly, I love and provide for my family and love building and mechanical stuff. I also love the feel of silk and satin, heels and stockings. I don't want to be a girl, I just like to dress.
[QUOTE=becca1125n;842898]However if I could choose to pick my gender when born, I'd with out hesitation pick female I believe.
I am in exactly the same boat, i would definately choose to be born a female. And i do bounce back and forth with dressing when i feel like it. but more recently i have been doing it alot as well.
I enjoy being a man in day to day events, but dream of what my life would have been like if a was a women.
I think being a guy is great... And luckily I do ok as a guy. But that makes it harder to sometimes justify to myself why I want to put on a bra, or shave my legs.... There is no way I would give up being a guy, but I do like to express my feminine side at times...
Here are a few things I love about dressing:
- Fantastic range of clothes etc - many more than a guy has
- Make up
- Pampering
I would say I was 90% male and 10% female. But that is a big 10%!
Antonia
I'm into many male activities and enjoy them. But I know there has been something missing. I'm now trying to catch up on what I missed.
Let's just say that being Joy is a distinct improvement over being J--.:D
I love being a guy I just like wearing lingerie I ride dirt bikes fish hunt work on cars all things a female can do but are more of guy things anyway I like doing them while wearing lingerie
No!
Lanore
I also suck at being a guy. I used to go running to the house in tears when I was little because the neighborhood kids teased me about my feminine traits.
As I grew into my teens, I tried hard to do guy things, but hated most of them and was a miserable failure. Everyone except me knew that I was a "girl in disguise". If I could choose my life of living for a hundred years as a male or thirty years as a female, I would have the best thirty years of life I could imagine.
Michelle
You go girl!