Thanks for this great post. We encounter so many boxes in life. The box for me symbolizes the rules and regs society and groups utilize to tag and label everyone. I agree that descriptions can be useful to let each other know what are some of our main and common charachteristics like cross dressing etc. I believe it is important to realize the boxes do not really define us they always fail somewhere along the line. We are so much more than the box. I like to think out of the box and live outside the box and not only when it comes to cross dressing but also when it comes to my faith, my work etc.
Inventors, original thinkers never stayed in the box, and I am never going back in. The box was like a coffin for me, especially when I was trying to be what the box dictated I was and not who I really was.
Many people can be made to feel they are even stranger because the boxes given do not represent who they are and they should not.
Having said that I also feel that if you are comfortable and happy in the box then I am happy for you
