Mines know for 2 weeks, and her first thought on seeing me was never, she wouldn't know whether she'd laugh or throw up
Tolerance extended to wanting to know wether I'd dress full time once the kids left home and if so I might as well pack my bags now and making sure when we went to a fancy dress party I had to wear the most blokish thing she could find in the theme
I think when tolerance just extends to I haven't divorced you yet, asking her to share in it would be a big no no
