I wanted to comment even though in drag or drab I have no same sex attraction..
Maybe its just me, because of not sharing those feelings. I do not want to trivialize the feelings of others.
I wonder though, if some of these feelings as expressed turn a sexual experience into a validation of ones feminine feelings.
If I walk like a duck, look like a duck and f___s like a duck, I am a duck?
And not to get judgmental because others are finding their way with confusing feelings, but wouldn't it be more fulfilling regardless of orientation if there was a closeness and dare I say a commitment to the whole of the other person before one would want to really contemplate?
I would think that a GG (and some do especially with esteem issues) are willing to "perform" as a girl because it validates them as attractive women also. I am NOT trying to be preachy at all here, it just seems tinged with lonely to me.
In any case all, be well and be happy.
