This thread still going? Wow! I suppose I should throw in my :2c:
Firstly, the issue of infidelity. It's fairly clear that the general forum opinion is that being CD or Bi is not an excuse to permit infidelity. This is a support forum for crossdressing, not adultery. If people want to brag about their infidelity, they should not expect approval here.
Sometimes, people do have affairs & get themselves into trouble. That's understandable. But I can't say much to them until they break up with one or the other, except "Stop it!". :Angry3: When they stop cheating, I am here to give my support.
Infidelity hurts. It's not nice to have your beating heart ripped from your chest & stomped upon by the person who you thought loved you.
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And now for homophobia, etc.
Sometimes remarks are made here that are less than diplomatic, but no real insult is intended. You could put it down to some people not being very familiar with all the different strands of our community here. And it's so easy for misunderstandings to occur with these sensitive topics, as this thread itself shows!
Sometimes, hetero CDs loudly proclaim they don't want people to think they are gay. No insult to gay people is intended. It's just hard for a straight GM to get a relationship if everyone thinks he's gay.Or if the CD's already in a committed relationship, and the SO is concerned on this matter, the CD will do everything possible to reassure her.
Perhaps such statements could be expressed in a more diplomatic fashion?
Robin
