I agree with you Veronica. This thread should not be on this forum. This type of discussion scares the hell out of wives. My wife this past weekend was counseling with a couple where the wife has now filed for divorce because her TG husband wants to have his one night a week to be in his femme self with men. He has agreed to give up this venture into being a woman but the wife has seen him make the same promise and in time go back to this practice. He wanted to be like Alice Novick, the author of Alice in Genderland. Alice is a CD who says his wife permits him to have one night each week as Alice with his boyfriend. I know my wife as most would be in divorce court if I wanted to have a boyfriend on the side. Marriage has to be scared or stay single and have all the boy friends you want. Now if your GF or wife agrees to sharing you with another man or another TG person that is their decision. I question that relationship.

Just my thoughts.

Hugs,

Melanie




Quote Originally Posted by Veronica Fallon View Post
Hmmm... I had to think hard about whether or not to post on this thread.

At first I was eager to, mostly because I thought my perspective on the subject was slightly different than what others had said, & just maybe my viewpoint (put with the rest) could help a new sister to understand herself better. I did not intend to share my sexuality here for any gratuitous thrill (although I'm not above doing that elsewhere).

Then... I read the posts from our GG's & was immediately reminded of what I consider to be the highest value of this forum- the enlightenment of the general public, with hopes of gradually diminishing the plague of ignorance & bigotry in our primitive society.

I'm not one who believes in censorship, but I have to agree with the GG's here. I've never been to the "private" forum, but it does seem like the logical place for this thread, all things considered. It would pain me to find out that an otherwise accepting S/O was forever tainted against crossdressing by this thread feeding her fears instead of diminishing them. And just think of the poor sister who loses her partner (& perhaps much more) just when she's at her most frightened & vulnerable!

So I am posting here, but only in support of our GG's views, & not to share my own sexuality. Another place, another time.

One more thing...
CHEATERS GET [SIZE="4"]NO [/SIZE]RESPECT FROM ME WHATSOEVER!!! GROW THE F**K UP & TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOURSELF!!

Veronica