Morgan and others,
I don't have any issue with alternative lifestyles. Being a CD, that would be like the pot calling the kettle black. On the other hand, the issue is married men that CD wanting to have a sexual relationship with another man or another CD, or another woman either because they are curious or because their wife doesn't accept them. Infidelity is the problem! Wives and other GGs that come to this site after discovering that their husband is a CD will see these threads and unfortunately will get the idea that married CDs are dissatisfied with their wives and that part of the reason for their CDing is that they are seeking another sexual relationship. Unfortunately this perception will be the result. There are many CDs like myself that are completely faithful to their wives and would never consider cheating on them.
It wouldn't matter if this site was about bowling rather than CDing. In that case if men that are bowlers post a lot of threads about infidelity, would you really want your wife to read the threads on the bowling site?
I have no problems or issues with single men discussing fantasies of relationships with other CDs, women, or men. That is not the issue. The issue is infidelity and the possibility of CDs getting a reputation for infidelity that will freak out their wives and SOs.
Please accept my apologies if I said anything that offended you as that was not my intention. I was simply venting because I was considering bringing my wife to this site and now I am having second thoughts when I see these infidelity threads. Maybe I'm being unrealistic, but I am expression how I feel.
Jamie
