id love to try it:daydreaming::heehee::oQuote:
Originally Posted by KellyWannabe
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id love to try it:daydreaming::heehee::oQuote:
Originally Posted by KellyWannabe
When I'm dressed I'm afraid I'm very attracted to being with a man and my experience is that the men I've been with have been very attracted to me. That's just part of being a girl I guess.
I have never thought about it ever, the simple act of thinking about going out on a date with a guy makes me want to throw up. I am very much a lesbian in that respect :heehee:
Lots of Love,
Miss Kara
Here's a little tip.. if you ever wish to try this..DO NOT call them a *******. It's highly offensive...FYIQuote:
Originally Posted by Girl
I'm never been attracted to men and I'm very happy to have an understanding girlfriend that allows me to express my feminine side whenever I please. With that being said though, if the right guy came along I probably wouldn't mind playing the submissive female. :)
Thank you for the tip! (I was quoting an earlier post by someone else, though.)Quote:
Originally Posted by kellycan27
I think that part of the attraction of being Trans is being able to relax and not have to be 'on guard' against every other male in the world. I am aggressive and competitive in the business world, and being able to relax, release, and surrender as a woman is as much a part of the relationships I've had with men as the physical passion.Quote:
Originally Posted by ReineD
So, yes, I think that a physically larger man is an affirmation of the things I get from my CD/TV/TS behavior. One of the most satisfying experiences I've had was with a man who was six-five or six and weighed 300 lbs. I was terrified of being helpless and submissive to a creature that was twice as big as me, but when I relaxed and saw that he was just another vulnerable, needy human being, I really was able to release everything that held me to my male persona and become the receptive, loving female. Sadly, he lives hundreds of miles away, and I've only been able to be with him twice.
Men are sexy, and since my partner has been becoming more and more feminine, I am finding lots of different men, so much more sexier than ever. There hairyness, there everything..
Love facial hair, where as my partner wants his gone completely, and It looks great on him.
I have never been with a man but have been hit on a couple times while dressed.
Would love to date a man, and perhaps take it a step further.
hey nataliegirl, u should try it. its nice and FUN to "experience everything" that GGs do!:daydreaming:
Tough finding the right one and being safe etc, though as of late the desire has become stronger and stronger. Odd when dressed all men and when not all woman as far as atttraction, thank god for my psychologist!!! LOL
There are lots of respondents to this thread who say the desires keep getting stronger and they would be interested in being with men. I'd love to know how many would still feel the same way after having given it a go.
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Originally Posted by ReineD
The first time I ever did, the guilt and shame was like a punch in the gut. I'm actually very surprised I was able to come to grips with it. I'd be willing to bet, many would try it, and never do it again. Of course then there are others that realize we like it..... ;)
I agree with you. Sometimes the fantasies are a lot more fun than the reality. :straightface:
I would be more intrested in the sex. I have thought about it for a long time. While I would like to give it a try, one of us need to be wearing some panties and lipstick
I still have the same desire to being with men but is kind of different now before It was more anything goes and live the fantasy..now I want to connect on a more intimate and emotional way. I understand that is more complicated now because most men just want unattached sex but I will keep looking:hugs:Quote:
Originally Posted by ReineD
So very, very true!Quote:
Originally Posted by ReineD
This is a really interesting observation.....Quote:
Originally Posted by JodyCD
having guilt and shame about trying it are a different thing than not doing it because its not part of your sexuality...
getting comfortable with a lover can be a long learning process..think of being a young kid...its not like the first kiss/grope/lick is easy for everyone
if the guilt and shame is what is stopping you, that doesnt mean you wouldnt enjoy it if you let go and trusted your own sexuality and instincts..
there is so much denial its hard to get through it...feeling like you are just like everybody else is a great way to get comfortable with yourself and to enjoy doing new things...many of us don't enjoy that blessing
Yes, some of the lucky ones :heehee:Quote:
Originally Posted by JodyCD
I definitely agree with that! :heehee:Quote:
Originally Posted by kellycan27
I have been with another crossdresser, don't know if I could do a "straight" guy, in the respect that he doesn't dress but likes guys dressed up as girls. And it's not because I think I'm skipping the "gay" label if the guy is dressed like a girl. Call me bi if you want, I find that another crossdresser understands more where I'm coming from, a guy has no clue what I'm thinking about. Plus I feel like if I were with a guy, it would just be sort of awkward, where with a crossdresser at least we'd have something to talk about.
That's not to say I wouldn't totally rule out a "straight" guy, many times I've become really close friends with guys because of common interests, and I sometimes think about what it would be like to take it one step further.
The ultimate sense of being a female is to have experienced the affection of a true gentleman. I'm talking about someone that meets you at the door with a warm hug and a sensuous kiss. One who brings a really fine bottle of wine and who is sensitive to your feelngs. A person who is patient and who waits until you have relaxed and feeling safe and valued. I have been fortunate to have enjoyed such a man, and although I would never have described myself as other than pure heterosexual I would not trade that experience for anything I have ever done as a crossdresserouI have truly been spoiled! And I love it!
I certainly wouldn't mind being with a guy while being CD'ed. The only thing that I would be nervous about is them finding out. Unless of course you go out with a guy who knows, that's just different. A classic date would be nice, but I'm an old fashioned kinda girl. :heehee::daydreaming:
~Jamie~
It sounds like your experience was perfect. My experience with men has only been getting want they want and off they go. I think that this has been my fault in wanting to have the experience and settling for something less than it can really be.Quote:
Originally Posted by jayme357
[SIZE="3"]I have always been straight, althought the thought of being with some CDs has been very tempting. Lately, I have even thought of being a weekend housewife for someone and engaging in everything that would entail. [/SIZE]
I would love to be with a nice sexy guy, but omg the attitudes of males out there! But that won't stop me from searching!:battingeyelashes:
That was my experience too , they get what they want and then you never see them again.
They get what you let them get.. and then you never see them again. When I was dating I was the one who decided if I wanted to have sex or not. They may have had a good game, but unless I wanted it.. not gonna happen. But when it did... I let them think it was their idea. As i stated in another dating thread.... The ones who are interested will come back even after you deny them a few times, the ones who were just looking for sex will fade away.Quote:
Originally Posted by Terri Semes
Come on ladies, this is basic "girl 101" :heehee: If you were out looking for sex, and got sex.. it's a draw! (you.. being used in the general sense , not you personally Terri) lol
Kel
Yes Yes Yes! I would totally want to date a guy that likes my CDing. It would turn me on to be treated like a woman all the time :-)
I have dated and shared intimacy with a couple of males in the past, and enjoyed it very much. Though as far as a seriouse commited relationship goes....I would only be with a woman.
Guys are no different with other guys, and it can hurt (the emotions) there too.Quote:
Originally Posted by kellycan27
I have yet to CD and date a guy. I would like to go out, at least see what it is like. But I do know for sure, that whether in guy mode or en femme, I would only date or want to be with another man. Like some in here, I have been out for a number of years in various degree as a gay man, and have never, not once had a sexual attraction for another woman, since my earliest feelings.
Chrissy
that is who I am .A women.if it takes a man to say sweet things to me "Krissie " I love your skirt, dont be shy may I kiss you? make me feel like the women I am ,then yes I have thought about a man treating me as a women.however........ ?:o
I'm not really interested in men per se...
I would like to experience other aspects though. Would be nice to go out on a date for dinner and dancing. Just being treated as a woman in that type of situation would be nice.
mayby . date a cd . in private we could be girls together. out I need to be the female .:daydreaming:
I don't want to be intimate with a man. But I have thought about being on a date with one. I think it would feel so girly to be escorted on a romantic date by a handsome gentleman. hehe
Hi Girls,
I class myself as bisexual and find that when in drab I don't fancy men at all really although I have had a few encounters. However, when dressed as Karen I long to go out and be accepted and wanted as any proper girl would want to be by a man.
One of my main fantasies actually is to go out and have a really good night with a fella and then see where it leads but as yet I simply don't have that kind of confidence or courage.
When in drab I totally love my girls...all those soft squishy bits and interesting curves lol!!
Karen xxxx
it depends on if the man was ftm for me because i'm also lesbian
Oh reina ... you need to know that FtMs are NOT women, so if you identify as femme and you are attracted to a transman, it is an insult if you consider yourself to be a lesbian with him. Such a union would be hetero.
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Originally Posted by reina1321
Yes, it is offensive, also a reason why I dislike lesbian women…[btw NO offence]. :doh:Quote:
Originally Posted by ReineD
It about time you do some research, like everyone else has to do cause if you said that to a transman's face you could get hurt. J/S. Or at leats I know if it was me, I wouldn't let them get away with it.
[Facts right = no problems] Simple.
[Edit: I’m getting SICK of this! Coming into almost every thread just to make sure people aren't being offensive against us. Just f*cking ban me for life already I’ve had enough of it!]
I am definitely a lesbian :)
I like women pure and simple.
I couldn't even think of sexual realations with Mana, even when in his really feminine looking outfits.
On that note, I would "date" a good looking TG, TS, or CD, IF they allowed me to CD, or go androgynous as well.
I dream of being able to date a girl wearing or looking whatever I would like, and her liking it.
I've thought about it a bit to be honest and I would, provided my wife could be there as a safety net should I decide I'm not ready for it, wouldn't mind the naughty stuff, but once again my wife would need to be involved (I need someone to teach me hehe)Quote:
Originally Posted by KellyWannabe
The only way that i would date a man is IF he were another CD. and then let the chips fall where the may.
But there is no way that i would date a man. I could probly date a transman or a transwoman but overall the male physique is utterly unattractive to me. Something about musclebound stud just mskes me shudder. While I would LOVE to be treated as a woman deserves, I would much rather it come from a genetic female or at least someone who acts or thinks like a woman. No guy I have ever known except for my dear friend JB, who is in Iraq right now, is a true gentleman. The rest are just boys or horndogs
Not at all. I've met a few guys on parties or in pubs who wanted to talk or dance with me. They all asked what I would do later, where I stay and all that. I feel very uncomfortable talking to guys, I love woman. I'ld rather meet a female and spend an evening or a full days with her en femme. I would love to go shopping with a gf, that would be so wonderful.
Dating a women when dressed would be the best I can imagine.
I can't believe this thread is still goin strong :thumbsup: It must be a record or something if someone keeps score of such things. Where is that hot girl who had tallied up the votes, back in december!?! :)
Being with a man was far from my mind when I began dressing. I still prefer women, but when I am with a man it gives me the complete feeling of being a woman. I do prefer to play with other CDs but when dressed I do find men and their anatomy very desirable.
I agree with you, this seems like a good scenario for a less than full-time TG. I daydream about it often. Kinda hard to find though. Most guys lack the courage for even that.Quote:
Originally Posted by Madilyn A.
Very good advice. It's kinda hard to follow when your thermostat runs as hot as mine usually does. You hope that you can act on your desires spontaneously and still keep the guy coming back. That's not how most guys tick, however, plus there seems to be a general assumption that CDs/TGs are just out for sex, too. They really, really don't get that they're dealing with a feminine person, and they approach you with a crudeness and lack of sensitivity they would never dream of trying with a GG. Bottom line is, if you want sex but want something more too, you gotta curb your enthusiasm and play the game.Quote:
Originally Posted by kellycan27
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Originally Posted by sherri
Whether or not it's the gentleman or the rude crude dude we have the final say as to whether we are going to let him bed us. If you meet someone and end up in the sack with them the first night.. be prepared to never see him again, but don't beat him up because you were a willing participant.Guys might assume that because we are TG that it's all about sex, but we have the power to dispel that notion before too much time has passed. If your hormones were raging and you give it up...own it! If you are looking for more than just sex you might want to be a bit more circumspect in how you act.
Even then it's a crap shoot. WE just need to keep things in the proper prospective. I have found that the best way to keep them coming back is to keep them off balance.. keep them hungry so to speak. If you give up the prize.. what's the incentive other than for maybe another shot at you? In high school the "easy" girls might have been popular, but who wanted to call them their G/F? :heehee:
Yup you def have to play the game.. but you can make the rules.:2c:
kel
That would be me. I've never had anyone refer to me as 'that hot girl' though. I like it! lolQuote:
Originally Posted by legz31
But seriously, I've also noticed that attitudes about dating men increase over time and I've often wondered if this is because the fantasy builds up to a fevered pitch? Does sexual orientation really change (providing a TG is not on hormones), or would the reality of having sex with a guy severely disappoint if it were experienced in RL?Quote:
Originally Posted by legz31
Or .. the big question: For those who are discovering an increasing desire for men, are they slowly getting out of denial over always having been homosexual? Have their sexual experiences with GGs been fulfilling all along or were these TGs just going through the motions because they felt they had to? I'm not saying this is the case but the questions do come to mind.
I don't know if the reality of sex with a guy would disappoint, but the reality of dealing with guys might. I sometimes smile, not in a derogatory or superior way, when I listen to someone mulling over the question of dating guys, as if it is all up to her to simply decide to say yes and voila, Prince Charming comes riding in. Uh, not.Quote:
Originally Posted by ReineD
I don't think -- in fact I know -- I wasn't just going through the motions with GGs, but I now believe the latent interest in sex with men was always there too. I suspect this true for many mtf TGs, whether they realize it or not. I told someone, a gay guy, recently that the best way I knew how to explain my bisexuality is that GGs are my native tongue and guys are my second language. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by ReineD