The ultimate sense of being a female is to have experienced the affection of a true gentleman. I'm talking about someone that meets you at the door with a warm hug and a sensuous kiss. One who brings a really fine bottle of wine and who is sensitive to your feelngs. A person who is patient and who waits until you have relaxed and feeling safe and valued. I have been fortunate to have enjoyed such a man, and although I would never have described myself as other than pure heterosexual I would not trade that experience for anything I have ever done as a crossdresserouI have truly been spoiled! And I love it!