id love to try itOriginally Posted by KellyWannabe
How many of us think about being with a guy while crossdressing?
I know I do! I wanna be a naughty girl!
id love to try itHow many of us think about being with a guy while crossdressing?
I know I do! I wanna be a naughty girl!
When I'm dressed I'm afraid I'm very attracted to being with a man and my experience is that the men I've been with have been very attracted to me. That's just part of being a girl I guess.
I have never thought about it ever, the simple act of thinking about going out on a date with a guy makes me want to throw up. I am very much a lesbian in that respect
Lots of Love,
Miss Kara
A man cannot exist without a woman, but a woman can exist without a man. Who is the lesser gender?
Here's a little tip.. if you ever wish to try this..DO NOT call them a *******. It's highly offensive...FYISleeping with a really hot ******* - one of my ultimate fantasies!
I'm never been attracted to men and I'm very happy to have an understanding girlfriend that allows me to express my feminine side whenever I please. With that being said though, if the right guy came along I probably wouldn't mind playing the submissive female.
Thank you for the tip! (I was quoting an earlier post by someone else, though.)
I'm always a woman!
I think that part of the attraction of being Trans is being able to relax and not have to be 'on guard' against every other male in the world. I am aggressive and competitive in the business world, and being able to relax, release, and surrender as a woman is as much a part of the relationships I've had with men as the physical passion.
So, yes, I think that a physically larger man is an affirmation of the things I get from my CD/TV/TS behavior. One of the most satisfying experiences I've had was with a man who was six-five or six and weighed 300 lbs. I was terrified of being helpless and submissive to a creature that was twice as big as me, but when I relaxed and saw that he was just another vulnerable, needy human being, I really was able to release everything that held me to my male persona and become the receptive, loving female. Sadly, he lives hundreds of miles away, and I've only been able to be with him twice.
Men are sexy, and since my partner has been becoming more and more feminine, I am finding lots of different men, so much more sexier than ever. There hairyness, there everything..
Love facial hair, where as my partner wants his gone completely, and It looks great on him.
I have never been with a man but have been hit on a couple times while dressed.
Would love to date a man, and perhaps take it a step further.
hey nataliegirl, u should try it. its nice and FUN to "experience everything" that GGs do!
I'm a girl stuck in a man's body!!!!
Tough finding the right one and being safe etc, though as of late the desire has become stronger and stronger. Odd when dressed all men and when not all woman as far as atttraction, thank god for my psychologist!!! LOL
There are lots of respondents to this thread who say the desires keep getting stronger and they would be interested in being with men. I'd love to know how many would still feel the same way after having given it a go.
Reine
The first time I ever did, the guilt and shame was like a punch in the gut. I'm actually very surprised I was able to come to grips with it. I'd be willing to bet, many would try it, and never do it again. Of course then there are others that realize we like it.....
I agree with you. Sometimes the fantasies are a lot more fun than the reality.
Reine
I would be more intrested in the sex. I have thought about it for a long time. While I would like to give it a try, one of us need to be wearing some panties and lipstick
I still have the same desire to being with men but is kind of different now before It was more anything goes and live the fantasy..now I want to connect on a more intimate and emotional way. I understand that is more complicated now because most men just want unattached sex but I will keep looking
So very, very true!I agree with you. Sometimes the fantasies are a lot more fun than the reality.
This is a really interesting observation.....The first time I ever did, the guilt and shame was like a punch in the gut. I'm actually very surprised I was able to come to grips with it. I'd be willing to bet, many would try it, and never do it again. Of course then there are others that realize we like it.....
having guilt and shame about trying it are a different thing than not doing it because its not part of your sexuality...
getting comfortable with a lover can be a long learning process..think of being a young kid...its not like the first kiss/grope/lick is easy for everyone
if the guilt and shame is what is stopping you, that doesnt mean you wouldnt enjoy it if you let go and trusted your own sexuality and instincts..
there is so much denial its hard to get through it...feeling like you are just like everybody else is a great way to get comfortable with yourself and to enjoy doing new things...many of us don't enjoy that blessing
Yes, some of the lucky onesOf course then there are others that realize we like it.....
I definitely agree with that!Yes, some of the lucky ones
I have been with another crossdresser, don't know if I could do a "straight" guy, in the respect that he doesn't dress but likes guys dressed up as girls. And it's not because I think I'm skipping the "gay" label if the guy is dressed like a girl. Call me bi if you want, I find that another crossdresser understands more where I'm coming from, a guy has no clue what I'm thinking about. Plus I feel like if I were with a guy, it would just be sort of awkward, where with a crossdresser at least we'd have something to talk about.
That's not to say I wouldn't totally rule out a "straight" guy, many times I've become really close friends with guys because of common interests, and I sometimes think about what it would be like to take it one step further.
The ultimate sense of being a female is to have experienced the affection of a true gentleman. I'm talking about someone that meets you at the door with a warm hug and a sensuous kiss. One who brings a really fine bottle of wine and who is sensitive to your feelngs. A person who is patient and who waits until you have relaxed and feeling safe and valued. I have been fortunate to have enjoyed such a man, and although I would never have described myself as other than pure heterosexual I would not trade that experience for anything I have ever done as a crossdresserouI have truly been spoiled! And I love it!
I certainly wouldn't mind being with a guy while being CD'ed. The only thing that I would be nervous about is them finding out. Unless of course you go out with a guy who knows, that's just different. A classic date would be nice, but I'm an old fashioned kinda girl.
~Jamie~
It sounds like your experience was perfect. My experience with men has only been getting want they want and off they go. I think that this has been my fault in wanting to have the experience and settling for something less than it can really be.
[SIZE="3"]I have always been straight, althought the thought of being with some CDs has been very tempting. Lately, I have even thought of being a weekend housewife for someone and engaging in everything that would entail. [/SIZE]
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