I just don't fit!

[tamarav]

[SIZE=4]I think every single girl on this forum can relate to your comments on not looking like a girl or seeing your male parts show through. I do a fair number of makeovers and find that even when I do different techniques than my client uses, I still see what they don't see and they see themselves so much better than when they do their own makeup.[/SIZE]
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[SIZE=4]It is all in the eyes of the beholder. When I look at my pictures, and I take a boat load of them, I always see the things that I wish I could hide or minimize. When you are talking to a car guy about his or her car and the first thing they say is, "its really dirty right now, or I need to do this or that". When the car looks like you could eat off of it and you would die to have one like it. See any similarities? [/SIZE]
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[SIZE=4]We are our own worst critics, just like women. I hear these statements everyday from gorgeous women who just complain about having too flabby arms, or hair not thick enough, or being too tall or too short or too skinny (OK not that one usually) but you get the idea. I have a stunning client (and I have a really good eye for beauty, just like you!) and she is always wanting to look better. I told her once that 99.99% of the guys out there would drop to their knees at any request she made of them and she started crying. Sheesh. We are just as bad. We don't recognize that even though we are unique, we are still doing a better job than most, and a lot of women.[/SIZE]
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[SIZE=4]So, lighten up on yourself. Look for the good parts rather than the things you think are obviously bad. Or, get your eyes checked...[/SIZE]
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[SIZE=4]Your flawed sis,[/SIZE]
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[SIZE=4]Tami [/SIZE]

[Lorileah]

what Tamara said

I just don't show the pictures that make me masculine.

But as I have said before, most of us would not pass close inspection anyway. If you dress anytime after puberty (but before the late golden years) you will have male traits. You can't fight build after things are set. Your shoulders are there, you might get hips but your pelvis won't be the reason (fat distributes in certain places), your hands won't get thinner. So we use smoke and mirrors. Show off your best feature and play down your flaws (been said a hundred times before). I like my legs so heels and short skirts draw attention from my shoulders. I make the shoulders balance with a corset to make my waist thinner and hip pads ( I really need a butt though). We are all magicians in some manner. Distraction and being able to get people to see what they WANT to see.

As the wizard said "pay no attention to the man behind the curtain" In this case pay no attention to the man under the dress.