I'm gonna jump in on this complaint - I'm 6'4", 230 lbs, and that's all a nice beer belly. I could lose it if I exhibited any self control, but I always "will get to it tomorrow." I used to be 180 at the same height, so I really hate my body right now, and it looks nothing if not thoroughly masculine. So, quit you're griping! And I mean that in a semipositive manner.

That is, you're in a far better place than many of us. So go out there, look for inspiration, and deal with it. You'll figure out some ways to get it right.