I never thought I was thick-skulled, but all this makes me wonder, haha.
Heehee See, you really know these answers when you put the pieces together, we all do. I believe that all of us can get past the confusion when we can look unbiased at ourselves, which is difficult,but possible.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.