Quote Originally Posted by yvonne10 View Post
you would already know if you were gay it is not something you can just decide to be you either are or are not i love getting dressed when i can but i am not gay ,i love my wife of 15 years too much
No, you don't always know if you are gay. I've spent 25 years of my life thinking I was straight and accepting the awkwardness of being with women as normal... I couldn't even fathom the idea that I might be gay despite the numerous (and fairly obvious) hints throughout my life.

Here I am... 25... and I like men.

It's not something you decide, and it's there your entire life. Some people accept it early on. Other people, like me, do a damn good job of repressing it.