I'm like just wondering how others are faring in their social and love lives. I'm actually asking those who are single without a current (understanding or otherwise) or previous SO or partner/girlfriend/boyfriend in life before you started acting on your new or other lifestyle.
I'm single now, after being divorced three years ago, and didn't like have too much of either social or love in my old life. Now it seems I'm like a Army of one or wutever after three years of being 24/7. I was dropped like a hot potato by many and the ones who stuck by me are like all paired up. No room for a 5th wheel in this world. It seems everything in the world is in even numbers. I have made some GG friends and they sometimes are willing to go to a movie or wutever, but almost never call me and ask if I would like to go (fill in the blank) with them. It seems I'm always the one doing the asking. Guy friends I don't need, had more than enough of that in the old life and didn't really enjoy it much then, less even now. Exception would be like as stated below.
Which brings me to the next part. After three years or so of literally almost no social (other than the occasional "T-Girl big city group girls night out night club scene" or wutever with some of the younger 30 something gurls) I am truly tired of being alone and like most want love and/or true BGFF status from another girl. This brings up another puzzle, although I still prefer girls it seems there aren't any in mainstream or wutever that I frequent that ever suggest or make moves beyond strictly the aforementioned casual friends. I've never been with a guy, but the thought has more often than not entered my brain since I really feel this inner urge to be wanted and protected and cared by a guy. Not much luck there either, thought I had it and was like sooo totally on cloud 9 for almost three days, but was told they really couldn't "get their head wrapped around this at this time" and it ended there. I like sorta tried one of those on line meet your match thingies, but there is no category for the "T" in GLBT and heterosexual worlds. I therefore tried the guy to guy thing, but without actually joining the site (membership money) I can not get communication from the 7-8 "compatible matches" or wutever I was given
How are others finding their soulmate/lover/partner if you are even successful at all?