Quote Originally Posted by Babeba View Post
Here's how I figure it, as the GG SO of a CDer who found out right away about the dressing: it's not down to the crossdressing to make us accept or reject our partners, it's about respect, chemistry, personality, etc. Most of us GGs haven't really given a lot of thought to crossdressing or trans issues, because we've never gone through them - maybe we have negative stereotypes, and maybe we don't. What we CAN and DO make our impressions about you on is the way you present yourself to the world.The more you accept and love yourself and become confident in who you are, the more that shines through in your personality. That's what is attractive - and that goes for friendship as well as dating.




Also, CherryZips makes a good point: if you want to have friends, it takes time and real effort to meet them and make them!
Now we can get like a kewl point of view here. A real GG one. My question is like since I am a full 24/7 gurl, assuming I was not a older bitch (as I jokingly call myself) and you meet me, or like "make" (figure it out or wutever) me somewhere, as the gurl I am or in the second case, am not, would you even in the first place deal with me, whew lol? What would be the attraction to a guy who really wants to be a girl? How would you feel about dating with a guy who dresses 24/7 with intentions of maybe transitioning at some time down the road? Where are the kind of places you would be willing to go in public? Would you like have to or be willing to give up friends to make this work. A GG thoughts on all this would be like so totally awesome, and the promise here is no one would hold you to it. It's just to get a totally different perspective or wutever. I guess we can all take it if it gets bad lol.