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    Quote Originally Posted by ReineD View Post
    Julie, congratulations! I'm so happy for you!

    I'm sure you'll know when it is the right the to tell.

    So. I've gotta ask. Who paid for dinner? Believe it or not, I'm dumbfounded by this. I'm in a relationship now and it's comfortable, we take turns. But, the days are long gone when it is taken for granted that a man should pay. Yet there must be some guys out there who would feel insulted should the girl offer to pay on the first date. So how did you navigate this? Was it awkward?
    Hi Reine. This was simple. I didn't make it to the ATM and was running late. Actually most guys like to pay...makes it a date in their mind. But I'll step up if need be. And I do plan to treat him to a nice lunch soon. :D

    Quote Originally Posted by RebeccaLynne View Post
    Ashamed? Ridiculous! I tell it like it is, and have every right to. Nothing cruel in my evaluation of, and conclusions drawn from, the original post.

    I'm really annoyed by the sanctimonious "you go, girl" attitude espoused by many here; in your heart and minds, you may be women, but biologically, you're not ... so accept reality.
    Miss Rebecca, you are quite the hater here. You don't know everything thing about me and certainly don't know my biology. What if I was intersex? What if I was XXY? What if I had strong female features before transition? You show a lack of even basic understanding of a classic Harry Benjamin transsexual. Using one of my analogies, according to you all amputees should be denied lifelike limbs so they aren't running around "deceiving" people.

    Yes I DID connect with him as a friend and maybe someday as a lover...

    And saying that you have a right to tell it like you see it while telling another member to literally shut up is some serious hypocrisy...

    Thanks to everyone for the support in trying to explain things, I was rather stunned at this unprovoked attack.
    Last edited by Zenith; 05-07-2011 at 03:56 AM. Reason: Trying to address more comments...

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