As far as this "real woman" issue is concerned: I can't imagine any woman (genetic or trans) actually saying anything about child carrying capabilities on a first date. I could , however, imagine the frightened look on the guy's face if he was told on a first date that she was capable of carrying children.
Awesome! Most guys would run for it.
It's Frances with an E, like Frances Farmer. Francis is a man's name.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.