Originally Posted by
DaphneGrey
Seriously! I can't imagine why somebody wouldn't want to go out with you! Don't go asking women for their shoes,its just not cool!
But before I read this post I was thinking, perhaps you are expecting to much to quickly. I have been a member of this forum for many years and I have been out for many years. One of the things I remember feeling very lonely. I came out and wanted it all. Friends, a sex life, purpose, and I wanted it now! I think when we get comfortable enough to to start telling people about ourselves. We just expect everybody to shrug their shoulders and go OK thats cool no biggie. Meeting the right person takes time. Building relationships takes time.
Maybe you are telling them to soon, or perhaps you are using to direct of an approach. I can't say for sure.
On the other hand there are women who find cross dressers attractive. I have met a couple of tranny chasers of the gg variety over the years. I don't know if they were bi curious, were attracted to the confidence it takes to present female in public, or some other reason. But they do exist. Like Shenanigans had mentioned (before you asked for her shoes! Creeepy!) perhaps you are looking in the wrong places.
