I think that you need to substitute "T" for CD in your thinking...Some of us are upfront and honest about meeting and interacting with others as our female identities are very important to us..Just my opinion.
I guess that's true. I only mention CD for me because as I'm straight I would not be interested in someone who is a woman even if they had male parts. But I think my advice is true in any case.
Erin
I wear the sassypants in the family.
“The greatest obstacle to connecting
with our joy is resentment.”
~ Pema Chödrön ~
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.